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🐞 Vibework, Engineering Culture, Delegation, Brittle Teams, Praise, Data-Driven Retros: TMW #423

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Reads of the Week

Speaking things into existence
Expertise in a vibe-filled world of work
Defining a Great Engineering Culture
How to Build a Great Engineering Culture: Article 2

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Leadership, Strategy & Business

Delegating Complex Tasks
I need halp.
Why Trust is 10x Harder to Rebuild Than to Create
Trust is leadership’s most precious asset — and its most brittle. For new and mid-level leaders, building trust feels like laying bricks

Introverted Engineering Managers Manage From The Background — Why That’s A Good Thing
Because you don’t need center stage!
Influence Without Authority
One of the most common topics that comes up in my mentoring sessions with engineers aspiring to become Senior or Staff+ Engineers is how to


Culture, People & Teams

Why Most Organizations Produce Brittle Teams Instead of Elastic Teams
On the Importance of Brittle vs Elastic Teams
Rethinking Agile 1/3: Teams, Trust and Leadership
Delivering software products without overthinking and overdoing just to satisfy egos and promises of the better world, without a plan.
How To Praise
The potential of positive feedback and the framework to construct and deliver it, reinforcing the right behaviors to help individuals reach their full potential.
Research: When Boredom Drives Turnover on Your Team
Everyone experiences boredom at work. But new research found that one kind of boredom—existential boredom—led to higher turnover and greater employee disengagement than the kind of boredom caused by repetitive tasks or tedious meetings. In a study of UN peacekeepers, a researcher found that those employees who were able to acknowledge their boredom and pivot from lofty goals to smaller, more focused wins, were more likely to stay engaged and sign up for another tour while those who stayed rigidly focused on the end goal were more likely to quit. The researcher draws on their study to point out the signs of existential boredom and what managers can do to overcome it on their teams.

Technology, Operations & Delivery

Beyond the 70%: Maximizing the human 30% of AI-assisted coding
Why durable human skills matter in the age of AI-assisted coding
Why speaking to users is a good idea.
Most software features fail to add value. Speaking directly with users dramatically improves your odds.
How to Reduce Planning, Deliver More, and Surprisingly, Reduce Pressure - Johanna Rothman
In my first post, Why We Have Too Much Pressure and Planning & Too Little Delivery, I discussed the issue of too much planning and how that reduced delivery. In this post, I’ll address how to increase delivery by planning less. (I have a draft post of the system view of how too much planning reduces [
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RDEL #83: How can engineering teams use data in retrospectives more effectively?
Subjective insights take priority due to data asymmetry, psychological safety concerns, and preference for simplicity.

Stress, Wellbeing & Growth

Why you’re so angry at work (and what to do about it)
A practical framework for transforming big feelings into wisdom
DANGER: has your job become your identity?
What Apple TV+’s Severance tells us about work
The Key to Asking Great Questions
Hint: It’s not just about what you ask, but how you ask it.
The Equation of Happiness: Balancing Results, Expectations, and Luck
Happiness is one of the most desired feelings in life. While it often feels personal and subjective, it can be understood through key


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